Kamerun’da ya\u015fayan Selma Halil, 21 y\u0131ld\u0131r g\u00f6rmedi\u011fi T\u00fcrk babas\u0131na kavu\u015faca\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcn\u00fcn hayaliyle ya\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
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Babas\u0131n\u0131n T\u00fcrk olmas\u0131 nedeniyle k\u00f6y\u00fcnde “Adanal\u0131 Selma” olarak tan\u0131nan 24 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Halil, 33 y\u0131l \u00f6nce T\u00fcrkiye’den Suudi Arabistan’a \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya giden t\u0131r \u015fof\u00f6r\u00fc babas\u0131 Halil Sar\u0131 ile ayn\u0131 \u00fclkeye temizlik i\u015f\u00e7isi olarak giden annesi Angasi Abdurrahman’\u0131n 1989’da tan\u0131\u015f\u0131p evlendi\u011fini, 1993’te de kendisinin d\u00fcnyaya geldi\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n
Halil, “Annem, Suudi Arabistan’a gitmeden \u00f6nce Kamerun’da 2 kez evlenmi\u015f ve bu evliliklerden 4 \u00e7ocu\u011fu olmu\u015f. Daha sonra Suudi Arabistan’da babamla \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc evlili\u011fini yapan annem, ben 3 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar\u0131ndan daha fazla ayr\u0131 kalamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyerek memleketi Kuseri’ye geri d\u00f6nmek zorunda kalm\u0131\u015f.” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
“Babamla ilk konu\u015ftu\u011fumda \u00e7ocukluk g\u00fcnlerime geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcm”<\/strong><\/p>\n Babas\u0131n\u0131n T\u00fcrkiye’deki adres ve telefonunu vererek annesiyle kendisini Kamerun’a u\u011furlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getiren Halil, babas\u0131n\u0131n da birka\u00e7 y\u0131l sonra Suudi Arabistan’dan ayr\u0131larak memleketi Adana’ya d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n K\u00f6ydekilerin “babas\u0131 belli de\u011fil’ diye kendisini ve annesini hor g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc belirten Halil, “\u00c7ocuklu\u011fum boyunca bize k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00f6zle bakanlar y\u00fcz\u00fcnden babas\u0131z olman\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 derinden hissettim.” dedi.<\/p>\n T\u00fcm \u00e7abalar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131n y\u0131llarca babas\u0131na ula\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyen Halil, s\u00f6zlerine \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n “Kamerun’da 15 y\u0131l boyunca babam\u0131n sesini dahi duyamad\u0131m. Babamla ilk kez telefonda konu\u015ftu\u011fumda ise unuttu\u011fum ama babam\u0131n sesiyle hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u00e7ocukluk g\u00fcnlerime geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcm.”<\/p>\n “Art\u0131k herkes beni Adanal\u0131 Selma olarak \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131yor”<\/strong><\/p>\n Hem\u015fehrileri Cibril Hamit’in bir T\u00fcrk sivil toplum kurulu\u015fu i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve T\u00fcrkiye’ye gidip geldi\u011fini \u00f6\u011frendiklerinde hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fti\u011fine i\u015faret eden Halil, annesinin Hamit’e babas\u0131n\u0131n kendilerine b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131 adres ve telefon bilgilerini verdi\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n Hamit ile T\u00fcrkiye’de e\u011fitim g\u00f6ren Kamerunlu arkada\u015f\u0131 Muhammed \u0130drissa’n\u0131n kendilerine destek olmak i\u00e7in Adana’ya gittiklerini s\u00f6yleyen Halil, “Annem, k\u00f6ydekilere babam\u0131n T\u00fcrk oldu\u011funu anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f ama kimse ona inanmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. K\u00f6ydeki herkes, ‘babam belli de\u011fil’ diye benden uzak duruyordu. S\u0131rf bu nedenle evlilik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na geldi\u011fimde kimse beni gelini olarak bile g\u00f6rmek istemedi.” dedi.<\/p>\n \u0130drissa ve Hamit’in yakla\u015f\u0131k 6 y\u0131l \u00f6nce Adana’da babas\u0131n\u0131 bulduklar\u0131n\u0131 anlatan Halil, “Babam\u0131n evine girdiklerinde benim \u00e7ocukluk resmimi g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015fler. Onlar sayesinde 3 karde\u015fim daha oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frendim. Babam ve karde\u015flerimle bulu\u015faca\u011f\u0131m g\u00fcn\u00fc iple \u00e7ekiyorum. Babam\u0131 bir kez daha d\u00fcnya g\u00f6z\u00fcyle g\u00f6rmek istiyorum.” diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n Maddi zorluklar nedeniyle ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 gelen yard\u0131mlar sayesinde s\u00fcrd\u00fcren Halil, \u0130drissa ve Hamit’in babas\u0131n\u0131 bulmas\u0131yla k\u00f6yl\u00fclerin de annesine inand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve art\u0131k herkesin kendisini “Adanal\u0131 Selma” olarak \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6zlerine ekledi.<\/p>\n “B\u00fct\u00fcn aile k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 g\u00f6rmeyi bekliyoruz”<\/strong><\/p>\n Halil’in Adana’n\u0131n Tuzla k\u00f6y\u00fcnde ya\u015fayan ve \u00e7ift\u00e7ilik yapan babas\u0131 Sar\u0131, kendisine telefonla ula\u015fan AA muhabirine k\u0131z\u0131na ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00e7aba harcad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fakat maddi yetersizlikler nedeniyle bunu ba\u015faramad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vurgulad\u0131.<\/p>\n Sar\u0131, \u015funlar\u0131 s\u00f6yledi:<\/p>\n “K\u0131z\u0131mla ilk kez telefonda g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde \u00e7ok sevindim, y\u0131llard\u0131r \u00f6zlemini \u00e7ekiyordum. K\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n telefonu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n telefonu vas\u0131tas\u0131yla konu\u015fuyordum. Selma’n\u0131n art\u0131k kendi telefonu var ve art\u0131k daha rahat ileti\u015fim kurabiliyoruz. \u0130lk g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fczde evli de\u011fildi. Daha sonra evlendi\u011fini ve iki \u00e7ocu\u011fu oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frendim. Onu daimi olarak yan\u0131ma almak istiyordum fakat \u015fimdi sadece g\u00f6rsem bile yeter de artar bana.”<\/p>\n Annesi Abdurrahman ile resmi nikahlar\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in Selma’n\u0131n T\u00fcrkiye’den vize alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getiren Sar\u0131, “B\u00fct\u00fcn aile k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131 g\u00f6rmeyi arzuluyoruz.” diye konu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n Maddi durumu iyi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kendisinin Kamerun’a gidemedi\u011fine dikkati \u00e7eken Sar\u0131, yetkililere k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rebilmesi i\u00e7in yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmalar\u0131 \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131nda bulundu.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Adanal\u0131 Halil Sar\u0131’n\u0131n Suudi Arabistan’da evlenip ayr\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 Kamerunlu e\u015finin yan\u0131nda \u00fclkesine g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc k\u0131zlar\u0131 Selma, 21 y\u0131ld\u0131r g\u00f6rmedi\u011fi T\u00fcrk babas\u0131na kavu\u015faca\u011f\u0131 an\u0131 bekliyor. 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