K\u0131r\u015fehir’in Mucur il\u00e7esinde, 3,5 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken merdivenden d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in zihinsel engelli kalan 34 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Zeliha Karaaslan, ailesinin organize etti\u011fi “damats\u0131z d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn”de gelinlik giymenin mutlulu\u011funu ya\u015fad\u0131.<\/p>\n
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Kendinden k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z karde\u015flerinin evlenmesiyle r\u00fcyalar\u0131nda s\u00fcrekli gelinlik g\u00f6ren ve ailesine evlenmek istedi\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen Zeliha i\u00e7in Hamidiye Mahallesi’nde ev d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fczenlendi.<\/p>\n
Kuaf\u00f6re gidip sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131ran, beyaz gelinli\u011fini giyerek evlerinin \u00f6n\u00fcnde orkestra e\u015fli\u011finde oynayan ve ellerine k\u0131na yak\u0131lan Zeliha, hayallerine kavu\u015fman\u0131n mutlulu\u011funu ya\u015fad\u0131.<\/p>\n
Zeliha’y\u0131 bu mutlu g\u00fcn\u00fcnde, kentte e\u011fitim ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6zel bir rehabilitasyon merkezindeki arkada\u015flar\u0131 ile K\u0131r\u015fehir Valisi Necati \u015eent\u00fcrk, Mucur Belediye Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Ali \u015eahin ve Kaymakam Muhammet \u00d6nder de yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmad\u0131.<\/p>\n
Damats\u0131z d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde Zeliha’n\u0131n yan\u0131nda olan davetliler, e\u011flence program\u0131n\u0131n sonunda gen\u00e7 k\u0131za alt\u0131n ve para hediye etti.<\/p>\n
“\u00c7ocu\u011fumuzu sevindirmek istedik”<\/strong><\/p>\n Zeliha’n\u0131n babas\u0131 Recep Karaaslan, k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n r\u00fcyalar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcsleyen damats\u0131z d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnle ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 mutlulu\u011fu anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n Zeliha’n\u0131n 3,5 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken akraba ziyaretinde merdivenden d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in engelli kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten baba Karaaslan, k\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n, 2 k\u0131z karde\u015fi evlendi\u011finde ve kom\u015fular\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde hep gelinlik giymeyi istedi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi\u011fini aktard\u0131.<\/p>\n Bunu organize ederek k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 mutlu etmeyi arzulad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 vurgulayan Karaaslan, \u015f\u00f6yle konu\u015ftu:<\/p>\n “Her d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde istiyordu. ‘Baba, karde\u015flerim gelin oldu, ben de gelinlik giymek istiyorum.’ derdi. Kom\u015fular\u0131n d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6r\u00fcp \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyordu. Gece r\u00fcyalar\u0131na giriyordu. S\u00fcrekli annesine ve bana ‘Gelinlik giyece\u011fim’ diyordu. Biz de e\u015fimiz ve dostumuzla \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzu sevindirmi\u015f olduk. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde gelinlik giymek k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n r\u00fcyalar\u0131na girdi\u011fi i\u00e7in damats\u0131z d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn yapmaya karar verdik. \u00c7ocu\u011fumuzu sevindirmek istedik.”<\/p>\n “Gelinlik giyece\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00e7ok mutlu oldu”<\/strong><\/p>\n Anne G\u00f6n\u00fcl Karaaslan da t\u00fcm ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kendisinin kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade ederek, s\u00f6zlerini \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc:<\/p>\n “K\u0131z\u0131m, k\u0131z karde\u015fime gitti\u011fimizde 3,5 ya\u015f\u0131ndayken 2. kattaki merdivenden d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc. Rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bir sene sonra anlayabildik. Bir\u00e7ok doktora g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fck ama \u00e7aresini bulamad\u0131k. 30 senedir k\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n her t\u00fcrl\u00fc ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. Giyimi, bezi, her \u015feyini kendim yap\u0131yorum. Yeme\u011fini yer ama bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 yapamaz. Y\u00fczde 80 zihinsel engelli raporu var. Gece, g\u00fcnd\u00fcz bensiz hi\u00e7 durmaz. Benimle yatar, kalkar. Her yere benimle gider.”<\/p>\n Zeliha’n\u0131n hep gelinlik r\u00fcyas\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00f6ylemesiyle bu arzusunu yerine getirdiklerine de\u011finen Karaaslan, “Hep evlenmeyi hayal etti. ‘D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcm olsun’ diyordu. Geceleri kalk\u0131p a\u011fl\u0131yordu, ‘Ben gelin gitmek istiyorum’ diye. Biz de damats\u0131z d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc yapmak istedik. Ona s\u00f6yleyince \u00e7ok sevindi. Gelinlik giyece\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00e7ok mutlu oldu.” dedi.<\/p>\n “Ba\u015fka eve gitmem, annemi \u00f6zlerim”<\/strong><\/p>\n Z\u00fchal Durmu\u015f da karde\u015finin, kendisinin d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcnden itibaren hep gelinlik giymenin hayaliyle ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getirerek, bu organizasyonla onun mutlu olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n Durmu\u015f, “\u00d6nce kuaf\u00f6re gittik, gelin gibi sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 yapt\u0131rd\u0131k. Evin \u00f6n\u00fcnde orkestra e\u015fli\u011finde oynad\u0131. Normal bir gelin gibi her \u015feyini yapt\u0131k. Sadece damad\u0131m\u0131z yok ama o bununla \u00e7ok mutlu oluyor. Onun hayalini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi\u011fimiz i\u00e7in \u00e7ok mutluyuz.” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n C\u00fcmle kurmakta zorlanan Zeliha da duygular\u0131n\u0131 “Gelin oldum. Gelin olmaktan mutluyum. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcmde oynayaca\u011f\u0131m. Ba\u015fka eve gitmem, annemi \u00f6zlerim.” s\u00f6zleriyle dile getirdi.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" K\u0131r\u015fehir Mucur’da ya\u015fayan zihinsel engelli Zeliha Karaaslan’\u0131n gelinlik giyme \u00f6zlemini bilen ailesi k\u0131zlar\u0131na “damats\u0131z d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn” yaparken fedakar anne-baban\u0131n \u00e7abas\u0131 duyguland\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":64902,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jnews-multi-image_gallery":[],"jnews_single_post":[],"jnews_primary_category":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"coauthors":[],"class_list":["post-64901","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-turkiye"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nordicturk.com\/arsiv\/20122025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64901","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nordicturk.com\/arsiv\/20122025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nordicturk.com\/arsiv\/20122025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nordicturk.com\/arsiv\/20122025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nordicturk.com\/arsiv\/20122025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64901"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.nordicturk.com\/arsiv\/20122025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64901\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nordicturk.com\/arsiv\/20122025\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.nordicturk.com\/arsiv\/20122025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64901"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nordicturk.com\/arsiv\/20122025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64901"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nordicturk.com\/arsiv\/20122025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64901"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.nordicturk.com\/arsiv\/20122025\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=64901"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}